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I had just returned from a long trip to Alaska, partly for work and 5 days of vacation with the family on one of our ships.  A number of challenges at work resulted in an enormous amount of stress.

One Sunday afternoon I was working on some travel arrangements for a trip for my 13 year old daughter and had an overwhelming sensation come over me that I can only describe as a premonition.  It was so strong that I shutdown the computer and had to go outside.

Over the next week I had several of these “episodes”.  The following week I began having them more frequently but less intense.  I would even wake up and have one.

One day I decided that I should see my doctor and get checked out.  Unfortunately he was on vacation but I was able to schedule an appointment with another doctor in the practice for the next morning.  Over the course of that day I had more of these spells than ever.  That evening Alisha took me to the ER.  I checked out fine and we chalked it up to stress.  I had texted my friend Kevin on the way to the ER and let him know what was going on.  Kevin is an old college friend and a pediatric surgeon in Kansas City.

I kept my scheduled appointment the next day and after a number of simple neurological tests was diagnosed with “Acute Stress Reaction”.  Another indication that I needed to manage my stress better.  But Kevin sent me a text after I told him the results of my two medical visits.  He suggested that I see a neurologist.  I contacted the doctor I had sen the previous day and asked for a referral.  He said that he didn’t think that I had any cause  for concern but sent a referral at my request to a large medical group here in Seattle.

Over the course of the next two days I make 6 or 7 calls to the neurology department to schedule an appointment but never spoke to a person and left several messages to call me back.  Finally I gave up and cold-called the neurology department of another large medical group in Seattle called Virginia Mason.  Not only did I speak to a person but was scheduled for an appointment the next morning.

The doctor I saw examined me and listened attentively to my story.  He suggested that it was possible I was having a stress reaction but also that it could be partial or focal seizures.  He asked me to schedule an EEG and MRI in order to rule out seizures.

I went straight to the scheduler but the first MRI available was about 7 weeks out.  Later I was talking to another doctor friend from college who encouraged me to try again and see if I could get a MRI at another location.  I made the call and was able to schedule one for 5 days later.

I received the results of the MRI on a Wednesday afternoon, scheduled an appointment with a neurosurgeon on Friday morning and went to the operating room on Monday at about 5:30 a.m.  So, in the span of 5 days we went from expecting a normal MRI and a plan to better manage my stress to surgery to remove a tumor from my right temporal lobe.

A month later it is still difficult to recount those days.

Thankfully I recovered quickly and with full functionality and with only a large scar to show for it.  My treatment plan includes 6 weeks of radiation treatment and a daily chemotherapy pill.

In spite of the trial we have many things to be thankful for.

  • I’m thankful that my friend encouraged me to see a neurologist.  Otherwise I would have continued on not knowing what was going on in my brain.
  • I’m thankful for the overwhelming prayers, support, generosity and encouragement from so many family, friends and colleagues.
  • I’m thankful that God has brought the right people at the right time into my path.
  • I’m thankful that I have full functionality and a quick recovery from surgery.
  • I’m thankful that I live in a place with access to unbelievable medical care.
  • I’m thankful I have an amazing employer fully supportive of me, my family and our situation.
  • Most of all I am thankful for my amazing wife and kids who bring a smile to my face every day.

8 thoughts on “Blog

  1. Charlotte Pesano

    Dwayne Before retiring I worked with Sheryl for many years .I feel as though I know your family as Sheryl always shared pictures of you and your family. This is very close to my heart as my grandson had a brain tumor at 8 years old and is 30 now ! I’m praying for you daily and believe in miracles ! Your blog shows the hand of God as He has gone before you and guided the steps.
    Blessings & prayer
    Charlotte

  2. Sherry Stovall

    Dwayne, Sherry Stovall here. I somehow missed the correct to respond to your current blog entry from today.
    I thank you for sharing with us. Know that I pray for you and all those who love you! I wake during the night and pray.
    The ‘stay’ is where we can live !

    We can only take one step at a time and live our best in the moment. We breathe bc God desires to give us breath. We trust all in the present and future to Him alone. The past is just that. We can take from it to live ‘this day’ differently.
    When I talk to my Aunt Joyce who is living at Martha and Mary, I say the same thing. When I get overwhelmed with all the hurt and heartache around me, the same is true. The ‘stay’ is in place.

  3. Joyce

    God is using your experience to encourage others going through difficult times. He gave you a gift to communicate through your writing. Now is the time to use that gift for good. Love you.

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